the subtle difference betweenholding a hand & chaining a soul

After a while u learn the subtle difference betweenholding a hand & chaining a soul,& u learn that love doesn't mean leaning & company doesn't mean security.And u begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts & presents aren't promises,& u begin to accept ur defeats with ur head up with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child,& u learn to build all ur roads on today b'coz tomorrow’s ground is too uncertain for plans & futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.After a while u learn that sunshine burns if u get too much,so you plant ur own garden & decorate ur own soul instead of waiting for sumone to bring you flowers.And u learn that u really can endureu r really strong, u really do have worthand u learn, and u learnwith every goodbye, u learn…